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#1 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 20:10
由 cx
Update: 我都是根据直觉来的。我说的话不一定对。所以大家参考一下就好。我不对别人的选择负责任。
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请大家回帖的时候 Be kind. 我纯粹是从科学的角度做得决定。
Hello, Can I be honest with you? Based on our past experience with ***—specifically the instances where he read the solutions directly from the practice book over several classes, many many pages—and how the situation was handled, we do not feel comfortable continuing to teach him. This does not align with our school’s values. *** has agreed to complete the lessons scheduled for May if necessary, but after that, we will not be able to continue. This has been a very difficult decision for us, and it took us months to reach this final decision. We hope you understand. Happy Mother’s Day.
I am Dr. Xue. I was mathematical biologist. I’d like to share with you the reason behind the decision to decline further involvement.The issue we are facing does not appear to have a simple solution. While I have no direct evidence, my instinct—based on years of research, reading, and experience—leads me to believe that this kind of behavior may have a genetic component. This is not scientifically proven, but science continues to evolve, and we are learning more every day.
I wanted to be completely honest and transparent with you. I believe that radical transparency builds trust and is essential for true inclusion. I’ve recently shared these thoughts with others, but not yet with you, because I didn’t feel emotionally ready at the time. Now, I have reached a point where I feel confident in my decision and am prepared to accept any response you may have as a parent. Thank you for your understanding.
#2 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的declination message
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 20:37
由 YouHi
declination估计90%人看不懂。
#3 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的declination message
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 21:48
由 在路上
发第一段就好。
别指责人家的基因有问题。,你的培训机构会有大麻烦。
#7 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的declination message
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:09
由 off
cx 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:02
不管有没有大麻烦,就算别人把我的公司炸了,我也必须把我的真实感受和盘托出,to be completely honest and fair.
公平和目的是两个要求。
#9 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:19
由 japamer
楼主想活在自己的理想世界里,这没有问题。
但千万不要把这强加到别人身上,这行不通,也可能会招来大麻烦。
这不关对错,何况任何人任何时候都有可能错。
不同于工程师,科学家更是经常徘徊在对错之间。
#10 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:21
由 Havana
第二段牛逼
cx 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 20:10
请大家回帖的时候 Be kind. 我纯粹是从科学的角度做得决定。
Hello, Can I be honest with you? Based on our past experience with ***—specifically the instances where he read the solutions directly from the practice book over several classes, many many pages—and how the situation was handled, we do not feel comfortable continuing to teach him. This does not align with our school’s values. *** has agreed to complete the lessons scheduled for May if necessary, but after that, we will not be able to continue. This has been a very difficult decision for us, and it took us months to reach this final decision. We hope you understand. Happy Mother’s Day.
I am Dr. Xue. I was mathematical biologist. I’d like to share with you the reason behind the decision to decline further involvement.The issue we are facing does not appear to have a simple solution. While I have no direct evidence, my instinct—based on years of research, reading, and experience—leads me to believe that this kind of behavior may have a genetic component. This is not scientifically proven, but science continues to evolve, and we are learning more every day.
I wanted to be completely honest and transparent with you. I believe that radical transparency builds trust and is essential for true inclusion. I’ve recently shared these thoughts with others, but not yet with you, because I didn’t feel emotionally ready at the time. Now, I have reached a point where I feel confident in my decision and am prepared to accept any response you may have as a parent. Thank you for your understanding.
#11 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:22
由 ferrygao
还剩几个学生啊
#14 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:33
由 在路上
建议别把私信转发到公共版面。会给你自己和网站带来不必要的麻烦。一点建议供参考。
#15 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:33
由 ferrygao
cx 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:32
一个不剩最好,我天天在家睡觉,最富有了
事实上,学生越来越多了。
这么有空烧东西
#16 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:34
由 pathdream
在路上 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:33
建议别把私信转发到公共版面。会给你自己和网站带来不必要的麻烦。一点建议供参考。
你可能不知道她是谁啊
#17 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:36
由 在路上
#19 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:38
由 pathdream
在路上 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:36
她不是薛博士吗。
你不知道她狠任性吗 谁的话也不听哦
#20 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:40
由 在路上
pathdream 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:38
你不知道她狠任性吗 谁的话也不听哦
我说了,“一点建议,供参考”
#22 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:41
由 sugarbabylove
上学时,成绩一般的同学,但是初中,或高中慢慢赶上了,进入各种名校读博的还是不少的。也许这个小朋友就是其中之一呢。
#23 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:42
由 pathdream
cx 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:40
是的,我想当这个世界上最任性的一个。。。
而且我完全comfortable,只有我一个人是实名,其他人用网名。我觉得这样是最好的安排。
必须的 你是这个三维世界上最任性的一个
#26 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:45
由 pathdream
cx 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:44谢谢夸奖
我最喜欢最任性的人了
#28 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:47
由 Bluesky
牛!
#29 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:48
由 pathdream
aadd 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:47
你奔个图吧,我给你拔草
我更任性 但是看不懂耶
#31 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 22:49
由 pathdream
aadd 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 22:47
你奔个图吧,我给你拔草
我更任性 但是看不懂耶

#34 Re: 今天给阿拉伯国家一个孩子发的劝退信
发表于 : 2025年 5月 11日 23:09
由 Yesterday
cx 写了: 2025年 5月 11日 20:10
Update: 我都是根据直觉来的。我说的话不一定对。所以大家参考一下就好。我不对别人的选择负责任。
===
请大家回帖的时候 Be kind. 我纯粹是从科学的角度做得决定。
Hello, Can I be honest with you? Based on our past experience with ***—specifically the instances where he read the solutions directly from the practice book over several classes, many many pages—and how the situation was handled, we do not feel comfortable continuing to teach him. This does not align with our school’s values. *** has agreed to complete the lessons scheduled for May if necessary, but after that, we will not be able to continue. This has been a very difficult decision for us, and it took us months to reach this final decision. We hope you understand. Happy Mother’s Day.
I am Dr. Xue. I was mathematical biologist. I’d like to share with you the reason behind the decision to decline further involvement.The issue we are facing does not appear to have a simple solution. While I have no direct evidence, my instinct—based on years of research, reading, and experience—leads me to believe that this kind of behavior may have a genetic component. This is not scientifically proven, but science continues to evolve, and we are learning more every day.
I wanted to be completely honest and transparent with you. I believe that radical transparency builds trust and is essential for true inclusion. I’ve recently shared these thoughts with others, but not yet with you, because I didn’t feel emotionally ready at the time. Now, I have reached a point where I feel confident in my decision and am prepared to accept any response you may have as a parent. Thank you for your understanding.
我勉强看完了,也没看懂,看了你的中文题目我觉得有点明白了。
我给你两个建议,你喜欢直截了当,我也喜欢。
1. 你英文不够好,最好写中文,让别人给你翻译,否则会导致误解。
2. 你说基因是insult,如果对方不是黄人,就是racism,是犯罪。
我不太明白的是,你开学校收钱教授学生,如果学生违规,按规定处理就好了。他学不好如果是你的责任,他们不会再来上学。是他自己没学好,接着教让他付学费,何乐而不为?
不过说实话,你不适合在美国当老师,价值观不行,误人子弟